It was nice of you to share. I think people hearing success stories in RL give much more hope than internet ones . It is just more.....well real.

There is always hope. Keep your hope alive but don't overfeed it.

In the meantime enjoy the "six nations"

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together