2017 - New year - same MLC but I'm moving along

[Irish M]

Hi bttrfly :-) xoxo happy belated valentines day to you too.
Hope everyone is doing good. I have a lot of catching up to do.

my D14 is doing good. No real symptoms and we are scheduled to see the neurosurgeon march 1st. we cant wait.
She is a little scared but I reassure her every time.

I had a great St-valentines days supper with the girls. Raclette. yummy
Not sure if everyone knows what that is. but its a must try. Sort of like fondue but with different kinds of meats and cheeses.


I'm back here tonight because my XW popped her head out of her hole again.
a small message asking

how are the girls and any updates about D14

I was pleased. I replied .
They are doing good and D14 has an upcoming appointment march 1st , So you can message me after that date if you want an update.

I promised myself I wont update her if she doesn't ask for it.

She wrote. I know now what i did was wrong. The marriage wasn't fake and I'm ready to do anything to be part of the girls lives. I miss them so much...

Also are you going to hold a grudge about all the mean things I said???

I took my time answering. and it was a simple reply.

XW, I do not hold a grudge. That emotion died long ago. The only hurt I feel is that the girls don't have their mother in their lives.

I won't tell you what you need to do.

I know one day they will reach out to you. Empathy isn't one of the Teens highest qualities. That comes with age and experience.

Take care.

She replied to me.

Irish, I was a good mom, my daughters always came first, I even put them before me. Me and the girls were like best friends. I never hurt them, beat them, abused them. I love them. You are a good dad and I think you handle a lot. If you don't help me you will handle a lot alone for a long long time....

Funny how she always puts the multiple dots at the end of her messages.
Anyway, I wont answer. She clearly doesn't see what she did or is simply putting the rug over it.

Looks like I'm in for a few good days of her messaging me. Its been a few months so she is due.