Karen...I agree with you about cycling between confusion and total anger. I take things one day at a time.
My W has also checked out emotionally...she shows no emotion or remorse. I just take it in and try and tell myself that she isn't the woman that I fell in love with. She is in a total depressed state and is validating her feelings by pushing me away and trying to get me to agree with her.
We will never understand what they are going thru. We would also never walk out on our family. All we can do now is take things one day at a time and continue to build ourselves up. Make yourself into the woman that you know you are.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!