WAW had an affair - hurt and confused

[Bdog37]

I probably wouldn't have said anything to her family. They will take her side no matter what and consider her the victim in all this. My W has done the same and I can't imagine them ok with the fact that she is already dating. The papers have just been filed! Nice parents, but they are going to support her regardless of how you feel so I personally have never said anything to them about it. I showed my W's family nothing but respect and even asked her parents for permission to take her hand in marriage before falling on one knee to propose. I would also help her family out whenever I could. None of this matters now though and I'm the a**hole. Can't imagine what she told them, but I know what the truth is so it doesn't matter.

I don't know how this is my life. I wish I had a time machine to go back 3 months when everything was normal and boring and with the knowledge I have now to work on not making my marriage vulnerable to this insanity.

You and I both brother! So many times I look at a calendar and just wish I could go back.... It is so crazy to think how I ended up here in just a few months.