I am not sure what I want at the moment and I think that's why I am all over the place.
Then how can you be anything for anyone else ??
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
One thing that I do know is that she said it felt like we were playing "mind games" the past couple of months and she is right. I would get upset that I didn't think she was "working on it" when she said she was. The resentment would build and I would revert, not in purpose, to my old self at times.
Do YOU think there are mind games happening ??
Like you said above, you have no idea what you want...
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
This has also taken the pressure off me it seems. So I think it is a good thing that she just finishes school and I just work on me. Living in the moment. No expectations.
I think that once people try to define a relationship, then there are expectations involved...
Once there is a label, "Oh, that's my Wife" then certain things are automatically expected, or assumed about them.
It also removes the joy and fun most of the time.
Seriously though, when is the last time you went on a date with her ?
Not because you wanted her to be your wife and expected wifely duties at the end of the evening...
But rather because she is someone that you CHOOSE to spend time with ??
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
On a side note. She sent me a text a couple of hours ago asking if we were going to a concert. The concert isn't until 5/31 I know that I plan to attend regardless. Lol
