Last night, the same friend who ww spent the night at, was out drinking all day, and asked if she could come spend the night at our house. ww had her friend on speaker phone, so of course I said yes.
The following text exchange occurred when her friend arrived: ww: I'm sorry me: yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm going to bed anyway after this (we were watching the Walking Dead) ww: Babe!!!!! me: baby baby baby (she likes Justin Beber, so I was trying to play it cool) ww: I am sorry I would feel like sh&t if I said no....
So then I went to bed, they were facetiming the friend's mom.
Now I did see a little progress. About a month ago, any time her friends would stay over, she would sleep in the guest bedroom with them. About three weeks ago, I told her that was unacceptable because she was a married woman and should be sleeping with her husband in their bed, and not with her friends. At the time she gave me all kinds of push back, about how I couldn't control her, and she would do what ever she wanted.
Well last night, after staying up with her friend for about an hour, she came to bed, in our bedroom, and went to sleep. Baby steps, right.
Me:33, WW:30 BD:12/14/16, EA no children Still together