This used to be easier - and a lot more fun, cont.

[DonH]

Yeah Mustang Sally would fall into the category of standards - some might say classics - songs that many many bands tend to play.

I hate and I really don't hate much - but I hate to dance. Lol. Yep a musician who does lay like to dance - actually there are many of us. So I'd not be a fit for a women who lives to dance and wants a partner. Still I'd never suggest you give up dancing for a guy. I totally understand it takes a bit of an extra fit for my lifestyle. The thing is, there are also huge upsides. If someone asked me to do something Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of this week, I could very likely make it happen. Not many guys can do that.

I fully get it takes the right fit. And I am also picky. Totally get al of it. I even totally get it will take time. But 5 or 6 years? Really? Three or four Rs in 10 years - most 3-6 months and one 9, which was the last one, 3.5 years ago. I don't have forever. I was divorced at 43 and will turn 54 in a few months. Time is not standing still here. I can never get these years and everything in them back. That's what concerns me most.