I texted my W's mom and cousin she had been staying with to let them know the details of what's been going on since my W was probably lying to them. Also spoke to a mutual friend. W texted me that night to "Stay out of my business" and "I'll be talking to my lawyer about this". Not sure what she thinks she can tell her lawyer that I did wrong. Only trying to keep her from getting physically hurt by an unstable person. Neither her mom or cousin responded to me so who knows if they even believed it. My W may have been able to lie and say I was crazy.

OM's W has still been in contact with me. He was in town this weekend and started texting her that he was sorry for breaking her hurt. She asked if he was with my W and he wouldn't answer. He said he was flying back home early today, instead of tomorrow like he was scheduled, so they could talk. Still wasn't admitting the affair with my W.

I don't know how this is my life. I wish I had a time machine to go back 3 months when everything was normal and boring and with the knowledge I have now to work on not making my marriage vulnerable to this insanity.


Me: 33 W: 33
EA: mid 10/16
BD: 12/10/16
PA1: 12/12/16 - 12/15/16
PA2: 12/30/16 - 1/1/17
I filed for D: 1/3/17