If you don't agree to the settlement then don't sign it. She wants you to rush but you have your own legal rights. Get a L and exercise them. This affects the rest of your life. Also, read and answer CT's questions above.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving