I recently saw references the 10 Commandments (Exodus 20) as responses to what some of our spouses are doing...

Spouse: "I am my own boss. So, i'll do whatever I want to do whenever I feel like it"

Commandment: I am the Lord your God who brought you out of bondage. You shall have no other gods but me.

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Spouse: "I have decided who and what is important to me. I will pay attention only to those people and things."

Commandment: You shall not make for yourself any idol.

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Spouse: "Don't worry about your husband/family. Think only about yourself and what you want."

Commandment: You shall not commit adultry

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M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process