You are in deep pain. Your W has you wrapped around her finger. She gets to do whatever she wants (EA, text OM in your presence, spew, ML) with no consequences? Have you read about codependency? It's when there is one sick partner (your W) and the other person enables their behavior (doing tasks for her, preventing her from facing the natural consequences for her actions). I've recently read up on this because I am guilty of some of this in my R. The sick person can continue in their sickness longer when the partner is constantly protecting them. If this sounds familiar, maybe read more about it as these behaviors are often decades in the making and really hard to change.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
