We have to try to figure out which path to take and if any of these choices will make the MLCer come home
The reason time is on our side is because while we wait we heal one day at a time until the time comes when all the decisions are made either by us, by them, or but he universe
After 2 years in Limbo, my D was final, I met a man I didn't want another R but it happened..Im still with that man shortly after I got involved my xh decided to Marry OW he is still with her ( not happy but together)
When the timing is right , we will know- When my XH Married the oW I was already in another R, but that was it for me I was done
after 2 years of hanging in limbo going to therapy every week DB like crazy..It was just over but I learned a lot and I gave it my best I never regret trying and It was an important time of growth for me and my kids
At the time, I wanted my x back-today I would pass
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow