I received the proposed divorce settlement in the mail yesterday. Spoke to STBXW and she wants me to sign quickly if I agree. I kind of panic because it seems more real than ever that this might be the end. I call her later in the evening and we talk for an hour. I explain I do care for her and say the things I have wanted to say since she left. Her response to most things was the same. 'When you have something good, you take care of it', 'you never helped with the kids', 'I am 10 times happier now' 'you always put work first' (she didn't work the last year), 'you were never nice to me', 'I tried everything I could to fix this', 'I tried to go to counseling for years' (yet she never made an appt.) 'the kids are fine without you, they are used to you being gone a lot' . And many more. When I finished spilling my heart to her she said'i just don't believe you'. 'why won't you just let me go' She was so happy 90% of the time we were married, always smiling and laughing. We spent lots of time together, even tho she doesn't think so. She has re-wrote our whole marriage to be completely negative, and I just don't understand. I only have a few days left before D is final. Any suggestions? Why is she acting this way....possible OM? Is there any hope of saving it?
