So Confused and Conflicted

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I'll give you credit for admitting your changes are motivated to change your W's mind. I will still hammer you to make the changes for yourself. The changes are more likely to stick if you do them for yourself.

Have you considered volunteer work? Serving at a soup kitchen for example. I believe when we are busy helping others, it helps us put our focus elsewhere. Additionally, you will be able to form new friendship.

I am a believer myself. It was incredibly helpful in my growth. Again, do it for yourself. Not to see your W at church.

Time to start a new thread.