If you want to sell do what you think needs to be done. Take charge and get it done. Nothing wrong with that. Stay out of the blame game about who is supposed to do what. It's always easier to ask forgiveness than for permission.
If you don't want to rent then you probably don't need to spend any time on finding a rental. If you want to buy another place then focus on that instead. She can find the rental if that's what she wants. Then you can compare the pros and cons of each.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5
