Figuring it out - WAW with Affair

[KevinIn]

A big bomb hit today - she wants a formal separation to begin the divorce process.

I kinda expected it, but she did it with such harshness and conviction that it really hurt.

Now begins 12 months of separation before a divorce can be filed (state law). We will need to divide assets, etc. And shes going to find an apartment.

I handled the conversation pretty well and followed all the DBing rules, etc. But it didnt matter - she knew what she wanted to do and nothing was going to stop her.

She is really dedicated to destroying my life.