We are both very quiet people. It does not make us bad or unloving. We are who we are, quiet.
With all du respect to many other posters, I am also still struggling at times. And I also know someone else who was very active on this board, is also struggling. We can say anything on here but no one will tell the whole truth in fear of being judge or criticized. I DO NOT BELEIVE ANYBODY FULLY RECOVERS. NO ONE is that strong. With that said, are we all victims? NO! NO! NO!Absolutely not!
Now, back to you Tad.. Your lady friend and your interest: I am not surprise that you have lost some interest in her. She would have to gain your trust and invest a lot towards you in order for you to rekindle the spark. I hope you remain close friends. Even if it does not lead to more, she is a positive figure in your life.
As for relationship, I also say NO, No MORE! until someone new make me question myself. lol I believe one day, we will meet someone who will strike our curiosity and make us embark into a new adventure. hopefully, of a life time. ( one last one to the end )
Your video of hope.. ooofff... got me right in the core of motherhood. Soon, my little ones will take flight. I can' t stop that but I struggle with empty nest and it is not even here yet. (victim of circumstances? maybe).
