Gordie, it's so tough to do this when some of the answers seem so obvious. That said, I started doing it last night w/ some responses to my W around getting the house ready to sell. I have noticed that my W will dig in when i disagree, and she'll also take the opposite position should i offer an opinion. It's been frustrating in the past, but you may be right, maybe this is a spot for me to 180 from something that's not working.
The return to the topic should be a good opportunity to validate as well. Brushing up on those skills as it's obvious i still need more work there. Thanks so much for the thoughts Gordie! I'll share some trial-error w/ you as well as i grind through this.
Will journal a bit later.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
