I agree...I own that I can do better, but the damage and scorched earth have all come from her side. I admit that I was ignorant at the beginning on how to talk to her about things, but I am learning. She is still throwing jabs at times that are gut punches.
I also think that the majority of them come out to a realization of what they have done and either make amends or simply continue with their charade since it is easier than asking for forgiveness from all those they hurt. Too bad there isn't a real life stat on that.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
