LITB, Thank you for that about the Stockdale Paradox. I looked into it some, and will look into it some more. From looking at your signature, apparently you have gone through similar to what I'm going through, and you have found reconciliation twice. That gives me hope.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
