After reviewing my prior post, perhaps giving an example might be helpful.
Just to give some quick background, not too long ago, S ate three bananas in a 24 hour period and became badly constipated. It was ugly. When I thought about what he had ate that could have contributed to the constipation, I realized it was most likely the bananas. So I told H and we make an effort to limit son's banana consumption.
Fast forward to this morning. H left for work early. When S got up he wanted a banana. He has not had one for over a week. I gave S a banana with his breakfast. H texted later in the morning to ask about S and what he ate. When I told him about the banana he said "hopefully it doesn't stop him up." Keep in mind H is the one who bought the bananas.
Perhaps I am being sensitive, but I take H's comment as a veiled criticism of what I am feeding S.
So far, I have ignored his text. Part of me wants to respond and another could just care less.
