She moved out, filed, but I'm still working Pt. 5

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No Cali, I understand. What I was referring to is her explanation of her belief in the sacrament of marriage. I also try my best not to judge others due to my past transgressions, but I also know that once you repent of those past deeds, you are truly forgiven.

I have also been to Mass with her recently and not taken the Eucharist myself because of my feelings at the moment. I actually need to work on myself alot more. I cannot control what she believes...that is between her and God.

Without throwing the good book at her...most cradle Catholics don't read it. They allow others to interpret its meaning to them. I have been trying to do both...read what I can and ask a Deacon friend of mine to explain when I am stumped. I also have a wonderful group of men that are a true Godly support to me. I am working with a psychologist to create a men's support group at my church. With those groups of strong men, it has been easy to understand that we are all going thru trials of different kinds.

My stand has been so much shorter than yours and I truly don't understand what you have been thru, but it feels like she is on the fast track to D. It kills me, but I again understand that this is her doing and not mine. God's timing is perfect and I am not going to question it.