Responses to "I love you but i'm not in love"

[KevinIn]

I'm wondering this, too. I think we are in shock when this happens.

Yep, i wasn't thinking clearly and also didn't even know about divorce busting strategies.

I think i may get a "do over" today, so i'm thinking through how i should respond.

I expect her to say "I still just feel like i’m not in love with you"

I think i'm going to keep my response short and validate what i am hearing - "I appreciate you being open and honest with me about it. Would you like to talk about this?"