Newby here . . . (Thread 7)

[JRuss]

FG -- I definitely found myself thinking at times "maybe this means she isn't so sure she wants to divorce", and what was very new for me was that that thought wasn't really a hopeful one. It's not going to happen, but I think I'd say no, we need to keep this moving. Things are just too far gone, she never moved a millimeter back toward me, and I've just gotten to where being alone would be better for me than living with her. And who says I'll end up alone forever? Not me.

Gordie -- yes, we'll live together until the divorce is final, then she'll move out, I'll stay in our current house, then sell it next summer when we no longer need it to be in S10's school zone.

lt -- thanks for the encouragement. I am still following your sitch and hope you're doing ok. You know how highly I think of your efforts, especially with your D.