"Dehumanizing" -- I've used the exact same phrase when talking about that process with my IC, father, etc. I found that watching how she went about it, how she fixated far more on the major assets than she appeared to focus on her "resilient" children, helped me let go. Not the person or value system I want to be around, at all.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
