Are you telling me there's no chance, that she has moved on?
Look at it like this: First, there is the OM fantasy you speak of (which may entirely be real)...do you think that if someone is even "dreaming" about, much less involved/was involved, another person that you are even a blip on their radar? Or the fact that she's made no attempt? Or...
I'm going to throw this out:
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I think she's so caught up in an OM fantasy, that she's just rushing things so that she can be with him. I don't know for sure yet, but I feel it so strongly that she is seeing another man.
Gut feelings are more often correct than not. Some won't say this or that its a bad idea, but for peace of mind you may want to hire a PI or something to find out. If she is, then the only radar blip you are is a target.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.