M1, I haven't been to Jimmys yet. I like Kennys at Tikatnhu, great food there, great service. I'm from San Antonio where there are a ton of different places to eat, but you know what, since I've gotten here I really enjoy cooking at home. I never used to. But in my attempt to get in better shape it just makes sense. Plus eating out here can get expensive. Haven't been to Flat Top yet but I've been to a few other places; Seward, Kenai, etc.. Been on the Glacier tours, that was Awesome. Look forward to doing some Geese hunting and Moose hunting this year. Maybe some fishing if I'm lucky. You know...her concerns and desires for changes in me run very similar to the things I see in myself that need changing. That being said I do want these changes for me and me first. Mainly because I need to prepare for the worst. I am VERY COGNIZANT of the fact that she may one day, out of the blue, say to me, "I'm in love with some else and you need to leave". In fact I wouldn't put it past her. I guess my trust only goes so far right? I don't really see it that way. For me at least, right now, it's not really trust, because how can you trust a WAS, MLC'r or other. You can't? All you can do is have some faith, some hope that their affliction will subside and their symptoms will disappear and they will come back to reality. So I need to make these changes for me first. For my own good. And if she comes around, great, if not I'll be prepared. Financial, health, taxes, kids...there all worthwhile changes for me. HFB/PFW Thanks Mach1. AK8