Waywards do come back. First step: LET GO

[Bdog37]

This is exactly where I am with my W. I love her very much and I want to repair our marriage. But I don't like the person she's become over the past 5 months and I would never want to continue a relationship with her if this her "new" self. Personally I think this "new" self is just a phase and for a while I was just putting up with it and waiting for it to run its course. But I think she's in the thick of it and there's a lot more to come. Call it WW, WAW, or MLC, it's probably a combination of all three and there's only so much a person can take before they reach a breaking point. I'm trying to look at that breaking point as a positive way to lovingly detach further, but it's so hard.

Couldn't agree more. I have no idea who this woman is anymore as she is not the one I married. At this point I could care less because I wouldn't want this person back. She's not the same and not the one I fell in love with. Who cares what the reasoning is on why she is the way she is.... I used to look at her as someone who is "sick" and thought that you wouldn't abandon the person you love when they are ill. However, now the betrayals just keep piling up so this "sick" person is now someone else's problem.