I've taken the time off/separated to really work on myself, which I may not have done had she stuck around.
This is the paradox that's hard to live with. I never in a million years would have wanted it to come to this, but there may have been no other way for me to see what I really needed to do to change and make the changes stick.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
