I wouldn't say she is making it up. As I agree I have had slip ups and it doesn't make it right. I think she choosing to see what she wants to and blocking what she doesn't. That's what I feel. Doesn't make it true. Nope. I'm not in a marriage with close friends and neighbors. But I do have relationships with them. See my response above about her choosing what she wants. I guess others see it differently. It's not an excuse. I won't live in a sexless one sided marriage. Hence why I told her the things I did. I am not asking her to make a choice. I am choosing to stay till she finishes up school because its better for my son so he isn't completely taken care of by babysitters while she does 400 hours of clinicals. The reason I will leave is because I am unhappy. And I am tired of being unhappy.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it