Same Sitch. New Approach. Motivated. Feeling Good.

[PacLove]

Once the holidays were over I did a lot of soul searching and decided to see the "separated but still living together" situation as an advantage. Many of the things I'm doing these days to try to reconnect with my W would be impossible if we were physically separated. And I've noticed a difference in her mood in just a couple of weeks.

I think had I chosen to do this instead of pursue and snoop early enough we probably would have avoided physical separation - unfortunately I was too wrecked emotionally at the time to completely pull back and the wheels were in motion for her already to move out. I was convinced of the A and was trying to do everything possible to prove it to her that I knew.