House is in both names. It is paid off. If we divorce I want her to have house and want son to spend most time there with neighbors and friends.
It's kind of complicated in that the house was bought with cash she got from the house we sold before we moved. That house was bought by her grandmother from her.
My attorney says that it would depend on the judge. It could go either way. She advises that if spouse isn't going to come after me for spousal support then I shouldn't fight her on that.
I am ok with her getting the house as long as I keep all my retirement. It would be a fair trade


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it