It's just a good connection. So I'm gonna enjoy it!
That's all that matters, Ginger. You know the situation better than anyone else. The important thing is that you are happy and that's all that matters. Good on ya!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
You go girl! Remember, we're all on the outside looking in. If you're comfortable and enjoying someone who is doing all the right things then go with it
Ha, I mean I can't be his MOTHER! I certainly can't be his father!
I agree you don't want to be his mother.
What is his relationship with his mother like?
He has a great relationship with his parents and his sister. His parents have been married a long time. he thinks his mom is the best and an amazing woman and you can tell he looks up to his dad and they are friends. He's the best uncle to his little nephew and he is watching him today.
So I haven't gotten any red flags so far. We have been spending a lot of time together. Is it moving too fast? I dunno. We want to spend time together, we can, so we do. I did let him bring D9 and I dinner on Saturday. Yes, D9 likes him a lot. Introductions were skipped as she knew him already. There won't be family stuff or hanging out together often yet. He's coming over to clean my dryer vent Thursday night so I am making dinner. I think those things are ok, but I will discuss with my IC too. If she tells me to urgently end any time they spend together, I will listen.
We had a great date Sunday. Even though we spend some time together where he just comes over for an hour or two, he does date me. Takes me out. We went to a boat show and then out to dinner. To a very nice restaurant.
We speak eachother's love languages which is nice. He totally understands that even though I am fully capable of doing everything myself, that he won't let me. He'll do what he can to help, he will make feel special as a woman, and I make him feel like a man.
It's just working nicely. Eyes wide open, still enjoying myself.
It's just working nicely. Eyes wide open, still enjoying myself
As the great doodler would say, I'm giddy! It is so good to hear things like this. Good on ya!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
No way on V-day. Thanksgiving is the perfect time to meet the rest of the family members that haven't already been met. After that, there's no way he'll wait until V-day; he'll want to have Christmas with his fiance.
Ginger,
Do you have a gender preference? Do you want a boy or a girl?
I'm pee-in-my-pants excited for you! (Giddy is too understated.)
