The latest is that I have found out that she has ended her A with the OM. She wanted to keep it going, he did not. And she is spiraling into a deep depression about it.
Stay away from that one, my friend. She's on her own road. Don't offer a shoulder or help.
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I can see things are going to get a lot harder. She has gone cold and I can see the anger and resentment building toward me again. I'm going to play it as cool as I can and try to to be to distant but not allow her to enge me in her mental warfare. Does anyone have experience with the WW when they are reeling after an affair that want to keep going, ends? I have not seen a lot of that here.
The only way I can figure that anger and resentment is being built towards you is if you had a hand in the ending of her affair. Regardless, don't let it bother you.
There is nothing you can or should do in her case. Remember, she left you and the marriage to be with someone else, including sleeping with them. Sorry to put that in there, but so many times on here people are willing to overlook that aspect. That's the ultimate disrespect. The question that you should be asking yourself is why do you want to do anything that could help her?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
