So as per DB, what are your measurable goals as they pertain to your W? What is your timeline?
My goals are...
To be able to go out to dinner together
Watch a movie together
To have physical contact with one another and I just mean a hug
To compliment each other and accept those compliments
Sleep in the same bed together
Have a normal conversation about something..our only conversations are short and pertain to either divorce proceedings or child obligations
As far as timeline...I hope to start seeing some of these things in the next 4 months because our divorce will be final at the end of April, these have been my goals for over 4 months already
Even after divorce I am still willing to reconcile
These are the goals that I had posted before.
Completed mediation yesterday. Next is final court date on May 2nd, unless that gets moved up now since mediation is complete.
H:44 W:43 M:17 S:15 S:14 S:12 W mentions divorce 8/2015 W files divorce 10/2016 D will be final 4/2017 Living together & will for a while
I'm pretty sure the goals are for your personal growth...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.