V, I'm sorry things are still so difficult for you. I would expect in a short marriage that you would each basically leave the M with what you entered with - perhaps splitting any asset growth?

I hope things get resolved for you soon. In recent years (through my D group) I've had contact with a lovely woman who went through a high conflict D. At the time she looked so weighed down with everything - but things did resolve. She got a new place and everything finalised. Last time I saw her, she was transformed. Enjoying her evening, laughter, peace and light....you will get to that stage too.

Your health comes first, so do look after yourself as much as you can during this difficult time.

Xxx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus