Coly, your questions are exactly mine too. And I too got annoyed. I am just don't get why he keeps the big show in front of others saying how much he loves me. I don't even see the advantage he gets besides covering up his guilt.
Maybe he is going insane. And by the way, maybe it is one of those MLC side effects.
Like I even tough that maybe he does this and then people think that he is this nice guy and then he gives me a cold shoulder and I react, logically I am the bad guy in front of others.
Who knows? Maybe I need a guy to say what this kind of attitude really means? I know there is more to it, I just don't know what it is.