Some perfectly great co-parents still manage to parent children who don't do ok w/r/t divorce. And our spouses have no idea how it's going to go, they just can't face it.
It never ceases to amaze me as to how many parents who destroy a family fall back on this line.
Script! I not only get the kids are resilient and kids will be fine...I get the kids will be happier if their mom is happier...sigh.
Have gotten all these as well. I've also gotten the "D will be happier without all the tension in the house". Well, who's the source of the tension...I get ya'lls frustration.
Originally Posted By: FG
Originally Posted By: JRuss Sink clogs are firmly in the "she can call (and pay for) a plumber" camp, IMO.
I think yer prolly right, JR. This is going to be painful, to watch her struggle, and possibly watch her world fall apart. I think things will get really hard for her before they get better. I wish her well and I keep wanting to jump in to help.....
agree with both of you on this. you've got to get out of this habit (i'm guilty of this too). My instinct is to snap to and fix it, but probably not the right answer.
everything's going to be good FG. You're a great man who continues to be strong for his kids. hang in there brother
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
