1. Sorry about the job loss, that on top of everything else, just stinks. The fact that she hasn't looked in the joint account for your severance? Classic.

2. Your W not keeping you up about the kids' school is a problem. This can't be the pattern now as it will only get worse after a S or D. Have you informed the school administration so that both of you are included on all communication?

3. The anger towards you at nearly all times is excruciating. I don't think I'd be able to handle that. How have you managed to not lose your mind and soul?

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving