It seems to me that no matter what changes I've made that she can not get past the past. She thinks it is all a facade. She says that I am borderline abusive. I've done everything I know how to work on that and I am making a lot of progress, but it's still not good enough it seems.
Maybe that ^^^ (bolded part) is part of the problem ???
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
Things are actually a lot better between us, but I think it's all her fault and she thinks it's all mine. It seems as if I am the target of her unhappiness and I don't see anything around that. As much as I still want my marriage to work, I just don't see myself staying in an unhappy relationship.
The first part is DB101....
The second part sounds a lot like a goal that you are working towards...
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
As of now I've created 7 goals for this process and will look at those and read them everyday. That's the game plan
