Don't beat yourself up regarding past mistakes on how to handle things. Slip ups happen! The good news is that you are recognizing the slip ups and are learning from them.
It is going to sound like an echo around here...you need to show her your changes through your actions, not your words. Remember that these changes are for you, not her. You can only fix yourself, not her.
At this point you have told her that you will not stand in the way of the divorce, right? That doesn't mean that you need to be the one that sets the wheels in motion. If this is what she wants, and you don't, she needs to be the one to jump through the hoops and make it happen.
It would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me at 303-444-7004 to schedule a session with your DB coach.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.
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