Originally Posted By: Jeep74

There is a very, very fine line. Some want to be become "friends" to make it easy on us...sort of ease their guilt. They feel that by doing this that we are OK with things. Be careful.


Yeah, I know it's a fine line. Sometimes I wish I could just put her out of my life forever but she truly is a kind and caring person and even though I still love her, I still like her as well. Neither of us ever had an EA or PA (I came close once but W found out about it and nipped it in the bud before anything more happened) so there isn't that noose around our necks.

When I have to move to another state in a coupe of months the real test of our "friendship" will begin.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day