You do not have to give her an explanation of why you aren't taking her calls. Look, she knows very well why you wouldn't want to talk. If you say anything, just text that you don't want to talk......and then leave it alone.
Unless she tells you she has ended the affair and is ready to do anything to save the MR.......what's to talk about?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
