Originally Posted By: sandi2


IMHO, giving her a Valentine card and then making a trip back inside the house with precise intentions of complementing her, is not LTR.



This was the guidance from my DB coach. Mainly because we didnt want my actions to seem putative. Not acknowledging her yesterday would have been punitive based on my history of always doing something nice on Valentine's day.

We also arent officially separated, if that matters.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process