ForGump: Not sure what I'd do though if, say, the sink clogs in the bathroom that my kids use. Should I come over and fix it for them? Or tell my XW to call a plumber. I think many in here would say stop serving cake. I think DB coaches would say be warm & kind.

Gordie: I'm asking myself the same question. No answer.

ForGump: The night we told the kids about the D and my W saw how hard our younger one took it, my W messaged me expressing extreme sorrow and a sense of failure. I was sorely tempted to respond saying, "then why the #$@! are you doing this?" But I didn't respond. I still kind of wish I had.

Gordie: I had one of these moments and accidentally dropped my STFU smoothie. We came to an important agreement on one of the D settlement issues. W said "I think this will be really good for the family...don't you agree?" Long pause. Gordie says, "Yes, if you ignore the fact that I don't want a D and think it will be terrible for the family..." Yeah, I know. This was not DB approved, but it just came out.

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Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving