Seeking the Truth

[sage]

Also, if he does initiate convo. to reconcile, would it be the DB thing to do to not mention the int. p. or if he lied to me other times, and that he DID lie to me twice for sure??? And just LET IT GO? I have less hard feelings than I thought I would, but it hurts that he lied. I thought he was someone who would never lie no matter what. But, I know that many of you have had much worse experiences and probably think this is no big deal! ??

Karen -- My 2 cents -- why start the "reconciling" process by bringing up 2 bigtime conflicts -- lying, IP? I'm not suggest they're not worthy of some solution seeking eventually -- just that in true DB form you may want to focus on "doing what works" -- I personally think that you'd want to be focusing your immediate energies on creating some VERY positive interactions/social times with h and reducing or eliminating the behaviors (um, yours, since they're the ones you can control) that just aren't working -- create some super positive times together, ya know?

Sage