HAHAHAHA - yes, the dipsh@t part is certainly what I am seeing. To me a man with self-confidence and security in himself would not be trying to spend so much time with a woman and her child while she is still married. It's what I would do. But he is weak or heart and mind, so...
Ahhh....Grasshoppa.....
A man with the same set of values, might also not let it affect the relationship between he and his Son.....
He might even reach the level of knowing that if he thinks along the lines of him being a dipshidt, it will affect how he thinks, feels and reacts, therefore teaching his Son to disrespect said man by allowing his "feelings" to cause judgement onto him....
It's what we teach that matters....
But , maybe that's just me....
Rise above petty CT, it doesn't serve the "new" you well...
