HI, I haven't talked to (or tried to talk to) H since Sunday morning.
My typical response to him going on a camping trip w/o me would be to be jealous-that he's having fun w/o me, that I'm not going, mad-b/c it was his friend (girl who's now my friend) & I that picked the date and started to plan the trip, upset b/c I'll be w/o him. I would have eventually broke down and cried and begged him to let me go. Well, we know that that won't work, right? B/c then he'll just want to be away from me more. So, what did I do?
I left him a note on the counter this morn. that said, "Hi Hubby, Would you like to use the truk this weekend?"
Also, if he does initiate convo. to reconcile, would it be the DB thing to do to not mention the int. p. or if he lied to me other times, and that he DID lie to me twice for sure??? And just LET IT GO? I have less hard feelings than I thought I would, but it hurts that he lied. I thought he was someone who would never lie no matter what. But, I know that many of you have had much worse experiences and probably think this is no big deal! ??
