I'm there too. BD was Jan, 2016 for me. She filed in October, when he handed me the D notice, everything in her soul said to me "I don't know what else to do". Preliminary settlement stuff is getting under way, but I don't know how long that will take.
My W also seems to be in a pretty big rush too. Last year, when I was still snooping on her - she told everybody how she couldn't wait to get me out of the house.
I read on another thread (from CaliGuy) that said to watch out here - that some MLCers may say stuff like this and seem eager to D, but when the time comes they hem & haw and fight over everything. I just read job saying that her H dragged out the D process for 2 years before she cornered him to finish it up. Indecision is part of MLC.
Of course, my W has not prepared anything for supporting herself & the kids without me. She's too busy with her social life and goofing off. It's indeed some type of fantasy. They're on a roller coaster.
M: 49, W: 45 T: 22 M: 15 S14, S11, S9 BD: Jan '16 W files: Oct '16 D final: June '18
