I did actually tell him I was no longer going to do X, Y and Z. His response was, as long as I'm giving you money, you will. At which point I told him those were things a wife or girlfriend would do and I am no longer either. It may not have been the most appropriate thing to say, but it drove my point home. I will say he stumbled on that. I'm not sure he's really thought about it that way or maybe he just had no response.
Hi 010207,
THIS. IS. PERFECT.
You really hit this one out of the park. It isn't rude, just stating that he fired you as his wife/girlfriend so he no longer gets those benefits.
I'm sorry that speaking with your attorney was so hard. It is important to understand your rights and keep your eyes wide open.
It is going to sound like an echo around here because I agree with everyone regarding taking the high road. You keep being the best Mom that your precious kids know they can count on no matter the circumstances.
Cristy
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